Tuesday, 4 September 2012

My Journey To Hell: True Life Story

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I have been through a lot in my lifetime. I was borrn and bread in benin, Nigeria into a family of 6. Mine was not a particularly well to do family. We practically struggled to survive. My Mum was a tailor and she also sold confectionaries , while dad was an electrician. He didn't get much work so we had to survive on mum's sales most of the time. From the age of 7 when I was in primary school I had to skip school most of the times to help mum in the market. It was
really tough but somehow I managed to do average in class. This continued unto secondary school. Well to cut a long story short, I finished second school and got admission into the university of benin but I couldn't proceed to go further because we didn't have enough money. My parents suggested I deffered my admission and work for a year to enable me prepare myself for school. During this period my aunty who had been in britain for so many years came back home for xmas. We had not heard from her in a long time and she was very happy to see us. She brought back a lot of goodies for my family. She told us it had not been an easy ride in britain but she was now doing very well having become a registered nurse. We all admired her as she was now looking very radiant and well to do. One night before she went back to the UK, my mum called a meeting and discussed the possibility of me going with her to britain. My aunty explained that it wasn't that easy but she promised to try her best. Months after she left, she called to inform me that she had started processing my papers and I had to provide her with some of my documents. I eventually got to britain exactly a year after and it was one of the happiest moments of my life, I was overwhemled with joy. On getting to britain my aunty was very nice to me. We discussed my options and she decided to put me through college to study fashion designing having had the experience from my mum. She promised to open an outfit for me after I get my certificate but she explained that all this were going to take time so I had to be patient. My aunty provided everything I needed but she hardly stayed at home.Her husband was a cap driver but he hardly leaves the house.When I first got to the house, he did not welcome or like me atall. He questioned everything I did from leaving the light on to even using the toilet often. I helped my aunty to do all the cooking and cleaning and she was very happy about this since she hardly had time. The day my problem started was one day when I had just finished cleaning. My aunt and her husband had left for work and I proceeded to go to the shower. I had just barely stepped in when I heard the bathroom door open, I was startled. I didnt expect anyone to come in as I had locked all the doors including the garden door and then to my utmost shock my uncle put a hand on my shoulder, I was stark naked.Out of fear , I jumped out and put my towel round my chest shaking. I was spechless and he just stood there laughing and ravishing my body with his eyes. He left without saying a word. I did not understand what that was all about and at night I playfully ask my aunty why the inner doors and bathrooms do not have locks. She laughed and called me a village girl oblivious of the reason why I was asking.Well, after that episode I got scared at everypoint and everytime I use the bath and  I get out as quickly as possible.It never repeated itself and I was happy again. Little did I know that my uncle was scheming bigger things to come. On my birthday, my aunt apologised for not been there but she gave me a few pounds to treat myself. I was ecstatic. I saved the money since I didn't need anything. That evening when my aunt was on night shift my uncle became unusually nice and promised to take me out for dinner. He said birthdays are celebrated in britain, and mind was not going to be an exception. He eventually cajolled me to a nice restaurant in the outskirts of town and I totally had a nice time. He then proceeded to take me to the club and at this point I requested to go home because I didn't see a club as decent place for me to be and I was also getting tired. So I begged him to take me home. He got angry and called me all sorts of names telling me the club was a normal hangout here in britain. So I eventually obliged him. We sat down and he made his orders, which was all alcohol and I told him I have never tasted alcohol before so I wouldn't drink. Well he danced, while I watched everyone in the club I was so nervous and shy. My uncle finally drove us home after ordering a bottle of wine to take home. At this point I was sleeping already. We got home and I proceeded to go to bed after thanking him but he said the celebration had just started. He begged me to drink and told me that it wasn't alcohol so I eventually obliged to make him happy. It was sweet and creamy and I liked it. I proceeded to drink more and my uncle at this point had slid in a movie which he said he had bought as a present for me to watch on my birthday. Well I sat on the sofa while drinking and watching with sleepy eyes. I didn't particularly understand at first what was going on untill all the scenes seems to contain porn. I was fidgety at this point and before I knew it my uncle was right beside me with his hands on my thighs. I moved away and he gave me a very stern look and then suddenly, his lips were locked in mine and that was all I could remember. I found myself on my bed naked the next morning with sperm all over me. My uncle had violated me. I was furious. I was angry, I was mad. I jumped off the bed and vowed to tell my aunt. I was still in this fury when I heard my aunty's voice, she had just come back from work and as I proceeded to reach for my door a paper dropped from the bed. It was boldly written don't even try to tell anyone what has happened.  Well this has continued to happen now for 2 years and I am beginning to feel very guilty about it. I and my aunt seem a bit distant now and I can not always bring myself to look at her in the face. Its hurting me deep inside and I am beginning to have a lot of nightmares. Please guys I am in a dilemma. Should I bare all odds and tell my aunt? I have looked at all my options at reporting to the police but my uncle has threathened to make everything hell for me. I am practically leaving in fear and as I read this sites in my spare time. I have decided to let the world hear this.

12 comments:

  1. Sorry to say, you have been very stupid, why will you ever follow him out on a date without your aunties consent? especially after what happened earlier before. The only advice I can offer you is to call your aunty and explain everything to her and beg her to forgive you.

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  2. Pack your load and come back to Nigeria where you belong.

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  3. Why are men animals? I know a friend that this same thing happened to. It is just unfortunate.

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  4. She is stupid, good for her

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  5. My advice for you is to call your aunty and explain everything to her, you should have actually done this before now! Nd for people insulting this lady! Anybody could be in this situation. So just shut up

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  6. Stupid girl ashawo

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  8. ANYWAY GOD WILL HAVE MERCY,JUST ASK FOR GOD'S FORGIVENESS FIRST, THEN GO AND TELL UR AUNTY,THOUGH SHE MIGHT HATE U BUT GOD WILL INTERVENE AND LET EVERYONE KNOW I MEAN UR FAMILY MEMBER WAT UR UNCLE HAS DONE.

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  9. What a life, wow this must be very traumatic for this lady. no one should pls judge her because from wat she said her uncle has threatened her with everything. My advice will be to to try and report to someone. Do u go to church, and is the pastor accessible. please see a man of God concerning ur case. And i pray God to forgive u n deliver u from this bodage

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  10. i do not know what to say to this girl at all. This is a very serious issue at hand. Well dear girl, first of all as you can see all that glitters is not gold. my first advice to u would be to sumon on courage n tell ur aunt.You cannot hide forever as she might still eventually find out. Remember nothing is hidden under the sun. She was the one that took u to britain so pls find a suitable time n place to confess everything to her and ask for her forgiveness. after which a decision will be made concerning the way forward

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  11. Girl u made a big mistake for 2yrs uv bin bearing it guess u later got use to it but dats not withstanding if u scared of looking directly into her eyes to tell her u have bin sharing her husband then u can put it into writing tell her abt d threats and dash out to d church and tell her to meet u there that u deeply sorry.

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  12. Girl u made a big mistake for 2yrs uv bin bearing it guess u later got use to it but dats not withstanding if u scared of looking directly into her eyes to tell her u have bin sharing her husband then u can put it into writing tell her abt d threats and dash out to d church and tell her to meet u there that u deeply sorry.

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